Author: Pure Love Zone

While validating her sadness through empathy is the essential first step, she’ll also be looking to you as her partner for some reassurance that her feelings, while totally understandable in the moment, are only temporary. You can provide that soothing comfort and perspective by tempering your empathetic responses with reassuring phrases like: “Right now that feeling of loss over your grandmother’s passing is so heavy and raw, and you have every right to just cry it all out. But just know that eventually with time and space to grieve, that sadness will pass and you’ll be able to look back…

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One of the most common pitfalls that can derail feelings of closeness in a couple over time is getting lazy and taking the relationship for granted. You know almost everything about each other’s lives, have settled into routines, and it’s easy to start operating on autopilot without much engagement. If you really want your girlfriend to feel loved, you need to fight against complacency and always maintain an eager desire to learn about her on a deeper level. Make her feel seen and understood by: • Practicing active listening when she speaks about work, interests or concerns • Asking plenty…

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In the immediate aftermath of a harsh breakup, even the most basic daily routines and familiar surroundings suddenly feel foreign, dark, and stripped of meaning without your significant other by your side. Haunting memories and tidbits of your old life together appear around every corner, mocking your new, harsh reality of being abruptly single. As the shock and desolation set in, you may find yourself desperately searching for ways to numb the ache, distract yourself, or radically shake up your environment and routines. Anything to escape the heaviness and hassling inner voice constantly asking “How could this happen?” and “Will…

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Stock Up On Essential Supplies The first step in being a cramp-fighting hero? Make sure you’re fully stocked with the right supplies and ammunition to battle her pain and discomfort. Some must-have menstrual cramp essentials to keep on hand include: • Her preferred brand of pads, tampons, panty liners or menstrual cups • Over-the-counter pain medication like ibuprofen, acetaminophen or naproxen • Portable heating pads or adhesive heat wraps for her abdomen area • Herbal tea varieties known to ease cramps like chamomile or ginger • Hydrating beverages like sports drinks, coconut water or natural fruit juices • Gentle, healthy…

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Childhood & Family Questions • What’s your happiest childhood memory? Who was there and what made it so special? • If you could have had any other name growing up, what would you have picked? • What were you irrationally afraid of or obsessed with as a little kid? • How would you describe your personality and role in your family growing up? • What family traditions, meals, or inside jokes do you look back on most fondly? • Which relatives had the biggest impact or influence on your life and values? • If your childhood self could see you…

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Amorous Wake-Up Calls If you’re in a long-distance relationship or often need to leave for work before she’s awake, a loving morning wake-up call can make her whole day. Make it extra special by: •Setting an upbeat, romantic song as her unique ringtone so she knows it’s you •Leaving a sexy, flirty voicemail telling her you wish you could snuggle up to her •Sending a steamy private video blowing her kisses and telling her she’s gorgeous •Writing her an old-fashioned, heartfelt love letter to wake up and read •Arranging for the hotel concierge to deliver breakfast in bed with a…

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Setting the Mood Before you even think about locking lips, you need to prime the situation for romance. It’s not enough to just steal a kiss out of nowhere. You want to build tantalizing anticipation and passion first through the mood and ambiance you create. Some ways to set the romantic mood include: •Lighting candles or a fireplace for warm, flattering mood lighting •Playing sensual music at a low volume •Dimming any bright overhead lights •Decorating with flowers or burning aromatherapy oils/incense •Pouring wine, champagne or cocktails to sip together •Using luxurious fabrics like satin, silk or faux fur as…

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Complimenting her every day – Never let her forget how attracted you are to her by peppering in sincere, specific compliments about her beauty, her style, her brilliance, or any other trait you adore. Bringing her small tokens and treats – Keep an eye out for little things you know she’d love, like her favorite snack or drink, then surprise her with it when you can. It lets her know you’re always thinking of her. Quality Time and Communication You can shower your girlfriend with grand romantic evenings out or showering her with affection at home, but at the…

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Romance nourishes relationships by making partners feel cherished. Consistently stoking those fluttering butterflies solidifies an unshakeable intimacy that withstands life’s storms. Thoughtful gestures demonstrating how highly you prioritize her happiness can take many forms. From planning sentimental surprises to openly expressing affection, here’s how to keep romance kindling between you and your leading lady. Schedule Regular Date Nights Carve out couple time fostering relaxation and intentional focus on each other despite busy schedules. Do activities reconnecting you to begin courtship days – picnic dinners under the stars at secluded parks, slow dancing in the kitchen to favorite songs. Escape outside…

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What gives? Why is she appearing so much more attractive to you during this period? The simple truth is, you’re not alone in finding your pregnant partner utterly irresistible right now. Many partners report these same feelings of heightened attraction and desire towards their significant other when they’re expecting a child. At its core, this reaction taps into some primal, deeply-rooted fascinations we have as human beings. That Fertile, Feminine Essence On a biological level, there’s evidence we males are subconsciously designed to perceive a visibly pregnant woman as the embodiment of health, fertility and femininity. Her swollen belly, fuller…

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