Setting the Mood
Before you even think about locking lips, you need to prime the situation for romance. It’s not enough to just steal a kiss out of nowhere. You want to build tantalizing anticipation and passion first through the mood and ambiance you create. Some ways to set the romantic mood include:
•Lighting candles or a fireplace for warm, flattering mood lighting
•Playing sensual music at a low volume
•Dimming any bright overhead lights
•Decorating with flowers or burning aromatherapy oils/incense
•Pouring wine, champagne or cocktails to sip together
•Using luxurious fabrics like satin, silk or faux fur as accents
•Cleaning up so there are no unsightly messes or distractions
•Putting away TVs, phones, and any other devices
Focus on engaging her senses through sight, sound, smell, taste and touch in appealing ways that create a romantic, intimate atmosphere ripe for passionate lip-locking sessions.
Tantalize With Anticipation
•Heated eye gazing – Lock eyes and give her a sultry look full of passion and desire
•Whispering sweet nothings – Speak softly into her ear about how much you adore her
•Gentle caressing/massage – Graze and stroke arms, legs, back, neck before any kissing
•Teasing with nearness – Get close as if to kiss, then pull back before going all the way
•Body language flirting – Lick lips, bite lip, play with hair, expose neck in inviting ways
The longer you draw out these sensual teases and build anticipation, the more electric that first lip-to-lip touch will feel. Stay patient and seduce her with every sense until you can both no longer resist.
Master the Proper Technique
When you finally do seal the romantic kiss deal, you need to bring your A-game in terms of kissing technique and skills. Poor execution or sloppy, awkward kissing can quickly ruin the mood. Instead, keep these tips in mind:
•Start slow and soft – Begin with gentle, lingering brushes of your lips together
•Angle your head opposite hers to avoid bumping noses or chins
•Relax and keep lips soft and slightly parted, not too pursed
•Pay attention to how she kisses and try to match her rhythm
•Don’t go straight to an open mouth make-out – build from closed mouth kisses first
•Use your hands – caress or hold her face, run fingers through her hair, pull her close
•Find a spot for seated or standing kisses where you are both comfortable
•Occasionally switch between upper and lower lip – don’t just slobber all over
•Let your kisses move across her lips, cheeks, jaw and neckline – then back to lips
•When open-mouth: keep tongue kisses sensual not sloppy, let your partner lead
•Come up for air – alternate between passionate kisses and tender eskimo kisses
•Make eye contact between kisses for extra electricity
The most romantic, knee-weakening kisses are a combination of intuitive rhythm and sultry, sensual technique. If you take it slow and focus on giving as much physical pleasure as you can through your caresses and lip-locks, you’ll leave her swooning.
Romantic Locations
Of course, you’ll also want to pick a romantic setting or backdrop for your unforgettable kissing session. While some spontaneous romantic kisses can occur anywhere, planning the right place ahead of time creates the most idyllic, swoon-worthy scenery. Some ultra-romantic locales perfect for passionate kisses include:
•Outside under the starry night sky or during light rain showers
•Inside a gazebo, garden, park, scenic hiking trail or flower field
•On the beach, lake or other serene body of water – especially at sunset
•In front of a crackling fireplace or bonfire at night
•In a horse-drawn carriage ride through the city or countryside
•At a candlelight dinner at an elegant, dimly lit restaurant
•After slow dancing in a private embrace to romantic music
•During a couples massage at a luxury spa
•In a hot tub, pool or other intimate swimming experience
•Amidst fresh snowfall or while ice skating at night
•In front of a famous landmark, monument or other picturesque backdrop
The more sentimental, sensory and intimate the location, the more romantic the kiss will feel for both partners. Capitalize on romantic scenery that promotes physical and visual closeness.
Little Romantic Extras
While the stage, technique and physical aspects are key, weaving in a few little extra romantic gestures before and during the kissing can really amplify the intimacy and specialness of the moment:
• Tell her how beautiful she looks right before your lips touch
• Present her with a single long-stemmed rose and kiss while holding it
• Have a photographer discreetly capture the moment on camera
• Gently feed each other chocolate-covered strawberries between kisses
• Pull her in close and sway to music before & during kissing sessions
• Exchange meaningful gifts before kissing and expressing deeper feelings
• Write a romantic quote, poem or lyric on her palm before kissing her hand
• Have extra ambiance like flower petals or aromatherapy for the room/area
• Blindfold her to build tension before seeing your candlelit setup
• Keep fresh breath mints on hand so you’re always ready
These extra romantic flourishes speak volumes about the thought and care you’ve put into creating an exceptionally idyllic, sensual kissing experience just for her.
Pro Tips to Impress
Once you’ve mastered the basic romantic aspects of setting the scene, building anticipation, proper kissing technique, and choosing an intimate backdrop, here are a few pro-level kissing skills that will really blow her away:
• Learn the art of sensual massage techniques to incorporate as warm-up
• Practice Spanish-style open mouth kissing with gentle suction to drive her wild
• Let her catch you watching her intently as if you’re ready to devour her
• Interlace your fingers together while kissing for extra physical connection
• “Make out” for 15 minutes straight then pause – leave her aching for more
• Discreetly turn up the heat by removing clothing piece by piece during
• Mix up your embrace by passionately pushing her against a wall mid-kiss
• Have confidence! Nothing un-sexy about taking charge & leading as the man
• Memorize her most sensitive zones to boost arousal before returning to lips
• Tell her in explicit detail how incredible her kissing makes you feel
Women universally adore a skilled, confident, romantic kisser – so bringing elevated skills into any passionate lip-locking scenario is guaranteed to maximize desire.
By following these techniques for building anticipation, setting the mood, executing proper lip and tongue choreography, choosing romantic backdrops, and peppering in extra special romantic gestures, you can turn any kissing session into an electrifyingly intimate and sensual experience with your special lady. Master these mouth moves and your romantic kissing talents will floor her every single time.
